I think the FO is going to be split or deeply divided, and it’ll be led by Hux probably. Kylo is just not emotionally ready for leadership – he does’t even care about the cause rea`lly, just hates it cause it’s what his mom/dad gave him up for in his eyes – they cared more about it than him.
I could have seen those things happen and I would’ve loved it, but ultimately I think we’;re in a REALLY good place. We don’t want Kylo being forced to make a good decision, we want him to make it willingly with open eyes and a clear wish for what he wants. He just doesn’t know what he wants – the only thing he knew was that Rey was going to be by his side.
He just got the timing wrong for it.