This is such an important point. I was talking to my friend (who I’ve been watching the movie with – twice thus far) about it, but…
The Last Jedi technically only spans 20 hours MAX. Yes, time is a little different – Rey spent maybe 3 days on Ahch-To, but ultimately that’s it.
Kylo JUST killed Han, and bonded so fast with Rey – and killed Snoke as well. It’s unreasonable to ask him to do a total 180 so fast. The boy has to catch up to his feelings. Right now the only thing he’s certain of is that he likes/loves Rey and thinks they’re destined.
Kylo Ren is all out of excuses now – Luke, Han, Snoke are all gone and dead. The only thing he has left of his past is Leia, whom he never talks about. He’s standing on his own now – no master but himself. He’ll finally have to stop blaming the past for his emotional choices and actually move on as he says Rey should lol -Kylo stop kidding yourself, you talk a big game but SERIOUSLY.
I think he’s going to grow a LOT now that he’s independent and I can’t wait.